Nothing turns a woman off faster than a guy who comes across like Norman Bates, and Jeffrey Dahmer had a baby, and he was born with Tourette’s. Yes, I’m looking at you Mr. Horn-Honking Cat-Caller.
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Friday Writing Challenge – Lost For Ideas
If you think humans, and apes are the same, you might be struggling with observational skills. Just saying.
Weigh-in Wednesday – Opinionated Edition
“Doug shot himself.” I said, pretty much as a matter of factly as that. Honestly, if anyone was going to shoot themselves, or someone else, it was going to be that kid.
Lighting Test
Yeah, she’s in her hoodie, and her hair is up. So what? Even at the end of the day, she’s amazing.
Friday Writing Challenge – Crazy Little Thing Called…
When we appreciate the little things: the moments, the kismet, the feelings that fill us even if for a brief point in time, we start to see the unwritten poems all around us. The beauty in our lives. The beauty we sometimes take for granted.
I know I need to do a better job of seeing the beauty, but she helps me with that every day.
Weigh-In Wednesday – No Bullying.
I’m never going to look like a Chippendales dancer, unless you compare me to Chris Farley in the SNL skit. So I’ll be happier just reducing the spare tire, and not being a flabby old man in five years.
I mean, flabbier, and older, I guess.
Thought of the Day
Like so many other ploys by men, White Supremacy at its roots is merely just a violence based tactic to eliminate male competition, and have sex with more women.
Discuss.
Confidence
As I have often said, every day we are faced with decisions. We make those decisions in the moment using the best information we have at that moment. From that, you should have no regrets.
Friday Writing Challenge, Again
There’s no such thing as an undamaged person, but to understand someone else’s damage, to understand what they need, and to understand who you need to be in order to not add to that damage takes effort. A lot of effort. Effort that very few people are willing to put into a relationship.
This is really complicated. But it isn’t about who is damaging who, or what damage we all have. We have to start putting more effort into understanding ourselves, having patience with each other, and recognizing the things that truly matter in our world. There’s no one right answer, or easy answer, or magic pill.
What I Am
I guess the side benefit is that if my acting career ever does take off maybe I can be famous, and anonymous at the same time, while hordes of other good-looking bald guys with facial hair get harassed with, “Hey! Aren’t you.. that guy?!” by mistake.