Author: Paul In The Buff

Chief mischief maker at Living In The Buff Studio. A project turned, movement, turned cause to find fulfillment within and without.

Our Social Decay

Posted on May 6, 2017May 8, 2017 by Paul In The Buff

It's still up to men to be the initiators of all things relationshipy or romantic, right?

Be the first to ask someone out.

Be the one to come up with the ideas.

Initiate intimacy.

But the general message across the board is, don't assume a woman wants you to, so if you do initiate, and she isn't into it, then you're a bad person for trying.

The caveat of the "if she isn't into it" part is the general shallowness that pervades all of humanity. Just about everyone bases those initial feelings, and judgments on looks. So for someone who looks like me, this day and age, I most likely would be seen as an unwelcomed advancer in almost all scenarios. Which would leave me with online dating, where someone can get to know me before seeing me I guess....

Awesome.

Not that I'm concerned right now. But the direction we're all moving in is a bit frightening....

The Gift

Posted on May 4, 2017May 4, 2017 by Paul In The Buff

Inside, Breanna crouched in complete darkness. The box was only big enough for her to crouch, or kneel. The walls only gave her slightly more room than her hips and shoulders required. She felt slightly uncomfortable, and a little foolish. As she attempted to see through the darkness, her vision was greeted with emptiness. Not a single detail could be seen….

Music Videos Of A Different Sort

Posted on April 28, 2017 by Paul In The Buff

This is one of the most random collections of artistic clips compiled into a music video I’ve ever experienced.

Multipotentialite

Posted on April 28, 2017 by Paul In The Buff

Free thinker... Renaissance Man... Multi-talented... Generalist... Scattered... Useful...

Words that have been used to describe me in one way or another through my time here. Sometimes, not in the most flattering of intentions. But, this is who I am. I think this video will give you a better sense of what I mean.

How Do I Put This Gently?

Posted on April 27, 2017 by Paul In The Buff

Too bad service dogs can’t help people with their blindness to the past….

Stepping Out

Posted on March 9, 2017March 1, 2018 by Paul In The Buff

Her eyes rolled back. She clenched her entire being, and began to unconsciously moan with every exhale.

“Does that feel good, baby girl?” Jeff asked slyly.

All Sierrah could do was nod rapidly, and moan a, “Uh-huh,” in response….

Thoughts

Posted on February 9, 2017 by Paul In The Buff

Like most artists, I look forward to the day I die
And someone discovers what I have done
All the works that I have created arise
And suddenly I'm worth something, to someone

Self Realization

Posted on February 8, 2017 by Paul In The Buff

I believe I recognized at the gym last night, working out for me is metaphorically like trying to pound a pork loin into becoming a filet mignon.

I think the best I'll ever get is thick cut bacon...

Sometimes I just want to be someone else... *sigh*

A Paradox of Paradoxes

Posted on November 25, 2016 by Paul In The Buff

Paradoxes naturally exist any time we deal in absolutes.

Life is rarely, ever an absolute. The improbabilities that exist in infinite probabilities are also infinite.

Never, and always, should almost never be spoken.

Similarities?

Posted on November 23, 2016 by Paul In The Buff

Rika and I sigh similarly, so I was told.

Makes sense. We're both grumbly creatures, whom are mostly unwanted by others, and are now stuck with each other...

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